Blended Not Shaken Ministries and Publications

Christian step/single parent and blended families ministry.

Moving forward.

Biblical Advice for Christians who are separated or divorced.

I am often asked about the advice I offer to those Christians who find themselves in the grievous situation of a marriage breakdown and subsequent divorce. Below are two videos that were created at the beginning of Blended not Shaken Ministries, that offer counsel and support to such people in our Christian communities.

In the first video, I begin by addressing “Those who have married the wrong person”. I want to add to this by saying that God never makes mistakes and nothing takes Him by surprise. He knows all things and even decisions we will make in the future that we deem ‘wrong’. Yet God in His grace and love, although allowing us to make such ‘mistakes’ are used by Him to help fulfil a greater purpose, much of which we may never see the benefits of or reasons why on this side of eternity. So really, did we indeed marry the ‘wrong’ person? But that question is for another time.

The first video briefly addresses the biblical view of sin, repentance and forgiveness, including the sin of divorce and encourages separated and divorced people to see themselves as God sees them after repentance. The second video offers more specific advice for divorced Christians and draws from my own experiences.

Scriptures referenced in Part 1 video:

Romans 8 (Please read my April ’21 blog for deeper Bible study on this chapter), Matthew 6, Philippians 3, 1 John 1:9, Jeremiah 29:11-13, Romans 3:23, Romans 3:10, Psalm 103:12, 1 Samuel 15:23, Hebrews 13:8.

  1. Forget the Past
  2. Live in the Present
  3. Expect a good future

Scriptures referenced in Part 2 video:

2 Timothy 3:16, Ephesians 3:20, 1 Cor. 2:9, Hebrews 10:25, 2 Peter 3:18, Prov. 27:17.

  1. Deepen your spiritual walk with the Lord
  2. Align yourself with like- minded Christians
  3. Seek professional Christian counselling
  4. Be a part of a Bible-believing Church
  5. Refuse to believe ‘statistics’.

For a handout of this information, please head to Free Resources on this website.

Blessings,

Karina x

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What people say?

My Two Houses was one of my favourite books as a younger person. It helped me understand how I was feeling about having two homes. I feel as though Karina’s books have simplified a confusing situation, in a way for all ages to understand.

Charlotte

There is affirmation and encouragement to single dads and mums through “Let’s shout out to single dads” and “Sing a song to single mums”, anchoring their value, peace and endurance in the Word of God.

Librarian

Clear, fun explanations in “My family bush” of hard to decipher terms like half-brother and half-sister, full brother or sister, step-parent and how they connect to the relationships within a family.  Relating that to Jesus’ own family could be a revelation to children that their own family structure is not so different after all, that families who love and care for each other are part of God’s plan, no matter how they are made up.

Librarian

One step at a time: a step family journal“ is an honest, humorous yet life and faith affirming read for those approaching and in middle years. The use of illustrations in the text make it appealing and engaging.

Librarian

Karina’s books are very helpful when you struggle to relate to a child of separated or divorced parents when you haven’t experienced this yourself. I have quietly read or given time for a child to read one of the books and then wait for their responses. I find Karina’s books extremely helpful in my ministry to children.

Chaplain

I am often in awe of God’s amazing timing! My morning began with feelings of despair over a family relationship that had broken down. I poured out my heart to the Lord, seeking His comfort and guidance. A short time later there was a knock on my door and the postie handed me a package. It was Karina’s book “Sing a Song to Single Mums”. As I read, I came across a page that spoke directly to my situation!

Even down to the illustration! My day ended with renewed hope in God’s promise that He works all things… good things and bad things… together, for the good of those who love Him. I am so thankful to Karina for writing such a beautiful book and for the Lord’s timing in delivering it into my hands precisely when I needed to read it!

Single Mum

Caught in the Middle is one of my favourite books because, whenever I read it, I feel close to God.

River

I read My Two Houses with my entire Year 5 class. They loved it! It began a wonderful conversation which allowed many students to be vulnerable enough to be open about their feelings and situations at home as well as to a better understanding of what some of their classmates go through with divorced parents.

Primary Teacher

I have used My Two Houses with a 13-year boy during one of my sessions with him. He loved that he could relate so well with the book, stating, “That’s just like me” and I could see a change in his demeanour and body language in his knowing that there are other kids out there, just like him.

School Counselor

As a nuclear family, we love that the books contain so much scripture in teaching our children God’s word.

Ces, Father of 5, Pastor

Karina’s books give children permission to have their feelings validated and provide comfort and healing to their souls.

Tania

When it comes to blending 2 families together or doing it by yourself there are a number of unique issues.  If you find yourself in a role as a single parent, stepparent or trying to help siblings navigate their new situation it can be very tough.   

We at Focus on the Family Australia, want to help relationships and families  be as healthy as they can be.  We know it is not an easy task unifying 2 families or doing it solo.  

We highly recommend Blended Not Shaken Ministries to help provide some tools to cultivate a loving, blended or single parent home to achieve a sense of unity in your new family. 

Brett Ryan, CEO Focus on the Family Australia